What Gift Should I Get? A 6-Question Decision Guide

You Deserve a Slow Day Pin Button, photo 2

“What gift should I get?” is really six smaller questions. Answer them in order and the choice narrows by itself. Each step below gives you an if/then rule and real items from our shop, with prices as listed at the time of writing. Want the shortcut? The gift finder does the same thing with filters.

Pin button with the message You Deserve a Slow Day and a steaming cup
You Deserve a Slow Day Pin Button

The short version

If you have… Choose
Under $10 and no time Pin button or sticker
$10 to $25 for anyone Ceramic mug, ornament or journal
$25 to $50 for someone close Puzzle, tumbler, plush blanket
No idea about their size Anything that is not apparel

Question 1: What is the budget?

Question 2: Who is it for?

Question 3: When do you need it?

Everything here is made to order. Production takes 3 to 5 business days, then shipping takes 3 to 6 business days within the United States and 6 to 12 internationally. Use the delivery date estimator to count back from the date you need it, or read the last day to order for Christmas if it is a holiday gift.

Ceramic ornament with a floral wreath and the message Be Open to Beautiful Things
Be Open to Beautiful Things Ceramic Ornament

Question 4: Do you know their size?

  • Yes: a tee or hoodie is fine. Check the size finder first.
  • No: skip apparel. Our items are made to order, so we cannot accept returns or exchanges for wrong size or change of mind. Mugs, candles, journals, puzzles and blankets need no size.

Question 5: What is their everyday like?

Poker playing cards with a botanical sun design on the back
Keep Choosing What Matters Playing Cards

Question 6: Where should it go?

Send it straight to them. Enter their address as the shipping address at checkout, and nothing needs to pass through your hands. If the recipient lives abroad, allow the longer international times and note that customs duties or taxes, if any, are the customer’s responsibility. The matte poster ships only within the United States.

Your result: three quick combinations

Budget Person Pick
About $15 Coworker Ceramic mug
About $22 Friend, homebody Soy candle
About $37 Close friend or family 20 oz tumbler

Still torn? Save your favorites in the wishlist and compare them side by side.

Frequently asked questions

What is a safe gift when I know nothing about the person?

A mug, a candle or a journal. They need no size and fit most tastes.

Can I include a personal message?

Send the gift straight to the recipient and mail your own card separately, so your message arrives with it.

How do I avoid a late gift?

Count back from the date you need it using the estimator, then add a few days of cushion.